A gift
posted in Art, OmegaDotter, Socializing |We are home in Alaska. It has been an interesting few weeks, with its major ups and downs, which I may or may not discuss later.
When we got on our flight home, OmegaDotter was more than ready to be home. I was, frankly, more than ready for OmegaDad to do some high-quality one-on-one with the dotter; she is high-maintenance at times, very touchy-feely, needing attention, bouncing, chattering, “on” all the time. I was not looking forward to six hours of her trapped in an airplane.
We didn’t get a window seat. We were both very sad about this. We settled into our seats, and I was hoping (hope-hope-hoping) that the last seat wouldn’t be filled, though we had been informed that it was a full flight, so that seemed unlikely. And then he showed up, with his tattooed arms, his leather jacket, his bald head, and jocular “I don’t follow directions very well!” comment about carry-on luggage stowage.
We took off, OmegaDotter chattering all the way.
He took out a notebook and began sketching.
OmegaDotter, on the other side of me, peered at his sketchbook and whispered, “What’s he drawing?”
I said, “I don’t know. I think he’s trying to figure it out.”
She whispered excitedly (and loudly), “I think it’s a flower! See how it swirls and goes around?” I looked again, and said to her, “Hm. It’s beginning to look like a rose…”
She got out her travel art box, and her latest version of Pippi Longstocking on her horse, then leaned in and whispered very quietly to me, “Can I show him my picture? What is he drawing?”
“Maybe you should ask him?”
She squirmed, shyly. I chivvied her on (I am trying to get her to ask her own questions, request her own interactions). Finally, she leaned over me and asked, “Do you want to see my drawing?”
He said he’d love to. She handed it over, saying shyly, “It’s—“ and he finished, “Pippi Longstocking! She’s the one with the pigtails that stick out, and the monkey, right? That’s very good. You’ve got a lot of detail going on there!” She pointed to the sign and said, “It’s Villa Villa Coola.” They talked Pippi for a short while, then he handed it back. She asked what he was drawing, and he told her about using light blue as a base for sketching, then coloring over it, any mistakes in the light blue being hidden by the darker colors. He said that he had started out drawing something else, but he heard her say it was a flower, and he went from there.
Both went back to their artwork. OmegaDotter added a second story. He added some wording and shaded in the rose. She handed him her picture again. He looked at it, and asked what was around the windows. She replied, “Wood”. He asked her what color the wood was. She quickly began coloring in the window frames, then handed it back to him. He asked what color the gate was. She said light blue. He handed back the picture and she quickly filled in the coloring…this back and forth went on for a few more iterations, with him asking what this area was, and what color should it be, and her making decisions and completing more. He lent her some of his coloring pencils when she was short a color; he helped her figure out how to make new colors when she didn’t have a particular color.
When she was done, he offered a trade: His picture for hers. He wanted hers, he said, so that when she was famous, he could say he knew her when…
I want an art teacher like that for her. Someone who—rather than prescribing or describing—asks questions and guides her. She was in heaven. He was patient and inspiring.
So, to Shane Ruggle, aka “Rug”, the Phoenix tattoo artist: Thank you. Thank you, thank you. Love is a gift, yes, and so is the sharing of your knowledge of art.
